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The Mama, The Mentor, The Stellar Woman – Meet Mercy!

Welcome to My Nest 🪺

I’m a woman with a hearty laugh, a mother to a little stellar girl and wife to an incredible man. I’m a social bird who still deeply values her peace and quiet, a goofball at heart, often the life of the party, with a creative mind and a happy-go-lucky spirit. I genuinely believe life is for the living, and I’m determined to be counted among those who soak in every drop of it!

While I’ve always enjoyed being around people, I’ve recently discovered the beauty of solitude. For the longest time, I considered myself an extrovert but after observing my habits more intentionally and taking the famous 16 Personalities test, I realized I lean more toward the introverted side and honestly? I love this version of me too.

I love telling stories, reliving moments, and capturing memories whenever I can. Writing and journaling are my therapy sessions - quiet pockets of time where I can just be. I also find immense joy in cooking. I may not have Michelin stars under my belt, but I sure can whip up a solid family meal! And music? Music adds rhythm to my life. My playlist changes like the weather, but there's always a song for every season.

At the very core of who I am lies a deep passion for youth mentorship and community outreach. Alongside my husband, we founded Stellar Generation Kenya - a faith-based mentorship and empowerment initiative for teenagers and youth. We believe that every generation carries the responsibility to pass down wisdom and insight to the one that follows. Through SGK, we’ve created a platform for individuals who believe in this cause to step up and make a lasting impact.

I’m not entirely sure how you found your way here, but whatever brought you, I'm glad it did.

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