It all began with two different passions that came together to create something bigger than either of us could have imagined. My husband was deeply passionate about mentorship for the youth. He spent countless hours planning youth rallies and mentorship programs, first in his church (in the city and in upcountry) and later in Nyakach Sango, his hometown - and now my home as well
. Even today, he continues to be an advocate for young people, empowering them to become leaders and live better lives.

I, on the other hand, was a young girl determined to empower girls and women. My journey started at Hanne Howard Fund in Lenana, where I worked to uplift and empower young girls to see a future they didn't think possible. From High School to Uni days, my best days were those I spent going for Community Outreach.
Our paths crossed, and it was in that shared desire to create change and empower those around us that we founded Stellar Generation Kenya (SGK). Running SGK together has been both rewarding and challenging. We’ve learned how to blend our strengths to create a mission-driven organization, but there’s no doubt that navigating a marriage and business partnership is a delicate dance.
There’s always been a certain oddness, especially in the early days (and even now), when he calls me by my full name in a meeting. It immediately feels like we’re on the verge of an argument
, and I can't help but smile (and maybe even brace myself) for a more serious conversation. After all, we all know what happens when your spouse uses your “government name” - it’s rarely a good sign! 


I’ll never forget the time I sent a message meant for my husband in one of the SGK WhatsApp groups, saying “It’s okay baby,” only to realize I’d mixed up the chat. Back then, there was no “delete for all” option, and that message stayed in the group for everyone to see. Thankfully, we laughed it off, but it’s one of those moments that sticks with you.
In the midst of our professional journey, SGK has often been the thread that brings us together when our personal lives feel out of sync. It has happened more times than I can count - when the “silent treatment” is activated unintentionally
, and we’re both upset, yet there’s an SGK Leaders meeting that we simply have to hold. In those moments, we’re forced to talk, forced to communicate, and more often than not, those forced conversations lead to reconciliation. SGK has been our glue during those challenging times, reminding us of our shared mission and the bigger picture.

Here are a few tips I’ve learned along the way for working with your spouse:






Working with your spouse is a beautiful, though sometimes challenging, experience. When done right, it can build a strong foundation both for your marriage and your mission. The journey is tough but so worth it!
I Love doing this with you. Let's change the world and make it better Baby 😍
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